FF14 is not made for hardcore players.

[ZedxKayn]

Nobody really cares about the dungeon performance to be frank. It’s Alliance and NM Raids where ppl frankly want others to not waste their time since it’s primarily q’d through the df.

People who care about performance care about it in everything that can be queued for, everything that isn't extreme/savage/ultimate can be cleared blind, easily accessed thru DF and have similar levels of difficulty.

Advice isn’t forbidden and neither is casual/elitist players. Choosing your content based on your abilities over your wants should come before even attempting said content. Otherwise it’s all for selfish reasons.

There is barely any high-end content available and Ultimate raiding is really difficult to get into. If there was no drought of content or no incentive for skilled players to do roulettes, you wouldn't hear complaints about toxicity regarding performances and expectations all that much. Unfortunately, the game forces people who clearly don't want to play together to mingle.