Player Purchase Priorty

[Penthea]

I hate that I'm going to have to do this to another player by buying a house somewhere I don't like, waiting for a plot I want to become available, relocating to it, and crushing their dream of having a house there.

It is exceptionally rare for players to get the exact house they want first time. Most just settle for whatever is available. And because houses are in such short supply almost anyone with a house has crushed someone else's dreams to get one. It's just a fact of this awful system.

This is why you get a undesirable plot and relocate when your dream plot is available.

This ^