Toxic WHM Glare spammers

[sleepy-bear]

You, sir, are an example of why I don't heal random dungeons. I refuse to queue as a healer in any 4 party dungeon. As a person who enjoys healing, and playing 2 out of 3 healing classes, I have found the toxic expectations towards a healer to be bothersome. "DPS, don't DPS, Heal this way not that way, You Heal too much, you heal too little." it's always the same story.

As a Healer player, I love actually healing, I love keeping my team alive and being able to help them, but the attitudes healers get from Tanks mostly has forced me to only heal friends, or Raids and Trials. So remember this while you wait 30minutes for a queue to pop on a random dungeon, and think, is the lack of healers caused by something you said?

We'd get along at least. My attitude towards random healers in dungeons is simple "no wipe, no problem". I could (and often do) notice when healers aren't making full use of their moveset as the OP describes, but when tanking I'm simply too concerned with keeping the pain train moving to stop and offer a critique. It's only when wipes start happening that I consider giving my feedback.

[Coletergeist]

We'd get along at least. My attitude towards random healers in dungeons is simple "no wipe, no problem". I could (and often do) notice when healers aren't making full use of their moveset as the OP describes, but when tanking I'm simply too concerned with keeping the pain train moving to stop and offer a critique. It's only when wipes start happening that I consider giving my feedback.

Typically same; you never know when someone is having an off day, as it happens to everyone. I give the benefit of the doubt and only start saying something if it /really/ starts to affect the whole party in a way it becomes bothersome.

I try to be nice about it too (at least as much as I can; everyone takes things differently). Because again, you'll never know how the person on the other side of the screen is fairing.