Toxic WHM Glare spammers

[Gothicshark]

I know this situation is not new at all, but it is quite annoying and ruins the fun of the game.

Every time I see a WHM in my party, I expect that this player may not heal, instead there will be Glare/Stones spam. No regen, no bubble, no res, not the slightest effort. Sometimes just Cure I/II on 5-10% HP, or healing only themselves.

In 80% of cases, everything turns out to be exactly that toxic way, and either I have to heal the entire raid alone as a healer, losing a huge amount of mana. Or I have to think only about my own survival instead of wall-to-wall pulls and uptime playing as a tank or dps.

It's not a big problem if I'm playing PLD or WAR, but I'm not having fun at all, compensating for someone's laziness. The joke about green DPS is no longer funny. Cause I come to have fun and not to heal for them or try to survive while they are throwing stones.

Disclaimer: Not all WHM's behave this way. There are excellent players to whom I am very grateful, but due to subjective experience, I have met spammers of stones much more often.

You, sir, are an example of why I don't heal random dungeons. I refuse to queue as a healer in any 4 party dungeon. As a person who enjoys healing, and playing 2 out of 3 healing classes, I have found the toxic expectations towards a healer to be bothersome. "DPS, don't DPS, Heal this way not that way, You Heal too much, you heal too little." it's always the same story.

As a Healer player, I love actually healing, I love keeping my team alive and being able to help them, but the attitudes healers get from Tanks mostly has forced me to only heal friends, or Raids and Trials. So remember this while you wait 30minutes for a queue to pop on a random dungeon, and think, is the lack of healers caused by something you said?

p.s. White Mage and Astrologian, not a fan of fairy healing, as it all feels to automated.