"Elitism" vs "Casualism"

[Goji1639]

Actually it's usually the ones aware of their underperforming who like to demonize and dehumanize people who pick up the slack and only want effort fairness during duties. ;-)

It's mostly about damage/rotations. Tanks who can't tank and healers who can't heal make duty completion nearly impossible. If it's not exhausting, why not do it anyway? Why defend not doing it anyway, unless you're defending your own playstyle? ;-)

I'm not defending doing it or not doing it; I just don't care when people don't do it.

The content is easy and you clear fast 99% of the time, even if the healer isn't DPSing, so why create an issue? I'm only demonizing the people who start crap over nothing; and a healer not DPSing in a roulette is nothing. I'd just prefer you pick fights over the injustice of it all when I'm not around to be annoyed by it.

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Critique isn't the same as criticism. Critique can be outlining a positive, whereas criticism is always outlining a negative. Advice is always outlining a negative, so it's criticism. There's no different ways to interpret it, so no matter how hard you try to play at semantics it won't work.

There's also no flaw in the point of doing it privately. Doing it privately is just more polite; the fact that being more polite doesn't guarantee the result you want doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Doing it privately may still embarrass and/or anger them, but it's less likely to because it's the polite approach. That's the point of being polite; to ease the person you're talking to and make them more receptive, but obviously doing things right doesn't guarantee anything.