Quote Originally Posted by Laesha View Post
Offering unsolicited advice while drawing attention to the individual you are advising is "calling someone out" though. This is objectively true. One doesn't have to assign negativity to it I suppose, if they don't want to, but that is objectively what it is.

And so what if they are too sensitive for you? You are too sensitive to other peoples' game play for me? I'm oversensitive. You're oversensitive. We're all oversensitive. What now? This is where it stops becoming about helping someone else and just becomes about the advisor not being taken seriously in my opinion.



That is the exact definition of a solicited question. j/s

No random teacher will be walking around the classroom past desks, looking down at student papers, then suddenly stop and draw attention to them and let the whole class know they answered a question wrong. They kneel down, they speak in a soft voice, they ask questions and allow the student to guide themselves while coaching.
Except in this case the whole class (rest of the party) can see what the student is doing. The teacher also doesn't cover themselves and the student in a cloak so no one can see them coaching the student, everyone can see that too.

Advising someone mid-duty = kneeling, soft voice, yadda yadda
You're conflating it with

"You damn noob bla bla" = calling them out in front of the class