You know op you might find this insensitive and rude, but i think it needs to be said. I honestly think you're not cut out for healing at this point in time. For 4 days straight you have had tanks here (mostly paladin mains i assume) tell you how Clemency should be used and when it should be used. And all you have been doing is shrugging them off and making invalid points. If you don't like tanks pulling a lot then play with trusts, you can pull 1 or 2 at time with them and not have to worry about wipes.