You can hide your logs apparently but I think that would only look more suspect. And there’s really no other way to match play styles and skill levels without said website. I’d much rather ffxiv added their own damage meter in game so people could strive to get better. Not having one has only fueled the fight club mentality of rule number 1. Awarding people for doing good and or showing people they are lacking wouldn’t alienate anyone. In fact I only believe a damage meter in game would bump up the overall skill level across the board because who actually “wants” to be bad at a game they play? SE’s stance on “including everyone” has only exacerbated the problem by never showing people they are “doing it wrong”. I venture to say most the Mentors out there are grey parsers that don’t know any better. At the very least let the quality of the players’ play style be graded for them alone to see.