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    Luke Lightbringer
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    Quote Originally Posted by Awha View Post
    Sorry, this comes with my own issues I do not view calling the actions someone takes and crazy as a personal insult. For example I enjoy skateboarding, and I tend to do dangerous things, my family tells me all the time that was crazy, I do not take that as me being crazy unless they outright say I am crazy. Just how I am, and often forget others are not the same. Did not mean you were insane or selfish just the action itself is insane and selfish.

    In short I only view statements that were personally made at me as an insult, and for some odd reason I do not tie an action to a person but that may have to do with my past and how shady my family is. Either way I apologize was not my intent for you to think of it as an insult, I was referring to your actions not as a person.
    Apology accepted, and honestly its not so much that I want to be treated this way, I'm not in that place in life anymore and I'm thankful for it, its that I've been in that place, I know how it made me feel when people talked to me that way, I don't want others to go through it, sure I know asking people to be kind and understanding is idealistic and naive, but I its how I try to be my life and how I try to interact with others in the game in hopes my kindness shown to them might extend to others and so on and so forth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SerLuke View Post
    Apology accepted, and honestly its not so much that I want to be treated this way, I'm not in that place in life anymore and I'm thankful for it, its that I've been in that place, I know how it made me feel when people talked to me that way, I don't want others to go through it, sure I know asking people to be kind and understanding is idealistic and naive, but I its how I try to be my life and how I try to interact with others in the game in hopes my kindness shown to them might extend to others and so on and so forth.
    I get where you are coming from, but I still stand by my mindset that A) if the OP does suffer from certain issues coming to a general forum expecting help that does not boil down to get over it is insane (in the sense of shocking; outrageous). B) Expecting otherwise is extremely selfish. That is just my view on the matter, though the way I got stable with my issues differs from some, I simply came to terms with that fact that the only person I have control over is myself everyone else is outside my bubble. As such only things that I "try" to let impact my mood and state of mind are things that are in my control and I am personally able to take action to change.
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