The 'unwritten rule' for non-tank pulls in dungeons

[Hash_Browns]

It may be a team game but the defacto person in charge is the tank. Dont like it? Just like in life you can promote yourself to team leader by doing the job yourself. This isn't a democracy, it's a meritocracy.

Tank can't lead if they aren't the tank anymore. That's simply how it is.
Majority rules - not the tank. If the tank wants to pull slow, and the rest of the group doesn't, they will just end up getting a new tank. You can't lead the group you aren't in anymore.

Also all roles are expected to DPS, not just the DPS roles.

[Mistyregions]

Tank can't lead if they aren't the tank anymore. That's simply how it is.
Majority rules - not the tank. If the tank wants to pull slow, and the rest of the group doesn't, they will just end up getting a new tank. You can't lead the group you aren't in anymore.

Also all roles are expected to DPS, not just the DPS roles.

I just covered this in another comment, in a real world it would work that way because of repercussions/ consequences.

But as a tank, you can kick me. Absolutely nothing can or will happen to me for playing the game as intended. No ban, same q time, same bonus, same everything. Thus it is not a democracy. I will continue leading, and I will lead adults not children.