Things to think about before you call someone "Bad"

[KaivaC]

If you are playing a healer and anything goes wrong, every single person is going to most likely complain about your healing role. But you are still assuming that the person complaining is right. If it happens however, very often, it is likely you are doing something wrong as a healer; the causes, I don't know, it could be because they are new, have low expectations, play the game occasionally or even have some sort of physical/mental handicap, it could be a lot of things. The "they refuse to learn" line is the easiest one to assume because it gives you automatic permission to go wild on whoever you think is doing something wrong.

I can honestly refute this, because my main role during stormbloods first month, my main was an AST. When things went south, my heals were rarely a subject, and when they were, I took the criticism and suggestions, and I adjusted to become a better healer. And this was before I joined the raiding scene. Seems to me that giving a player either criticism or suggestions automatically equates to harassment or close to harassment. Tanks and dps can easily be subjected to criticism and suggestions as well.