Quote Originally Posted by Gallus View Post
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While there is a definition of harassment, what qualifies as harassment or not can often be vague or ambiguous, so arguing over this makes little sense. "Heals??????" when as a tank you've just died is directly pointing the healer as the only responsible of such situation, all while drawing away any potential responsibility you may have had. Whether that's qualified as harassment or not in your very own personal book isn't very important; what is important however is that such comment will certainly not be welcomed by the other side (for more than obvious reasons).
...how is "heals????" drawing away any potential responsibility that tank might had? When I die despite having a cooldown up and dodging every attack I can, its very much the healers fault - I did all in my power to prevent my death. And while I personally wouldnt express it that way at that point it is very much the healers fault, so calling them out on that isnt anywhere close to harassment.
If the tank can say to themself "Okay, I did all that I could in that situation, the rest of the burden is on the healer", its not like they're denying their own responsibility - they just did their share and can rightfully say that. Maybe expressed better than "heals???", but during a battle I often dont have the time to type more than "please heal me".

I realise that my version is only one of many that can exist - but so is yours (the one in which the tank didnt do their share), yet you made such a general statment out of it, that I felt the need to correct that a bit.

You can die from many things - not using your cooldowns, not doing mechanics correctly, someone else not doing mechanics correctly... but a healer not healing is very much possible aswell. And asking them to perform their primary job-function at that point isnt harassment (at least when done without adding "you noob" at the end). Asking someone to pay attention and perform their basic role isnt harassment.