Quote Originally Posted by Kleeya View Post
About the rezzes, even if it goes against the group interest as a whole, as a rdm i will almost never rez if they are some healers still alive around. Because the more i use mana and waste gcds on raising, the most my dps will go down and the more risk i will take to have some parser freak blaming me for a too low average damage. Now if only they weren't any people that look only at your dps and the pretty color you end up categorized with on fflogs reports frontpages for the whole world to see, not caring about looking anything else like "have you been useful to do some healer job ?", i sure would raise more. But sadly it isn't the case and you have to take into account jerks who dont know how to use they tools properly into account.

An explanation who have nothing to do with the op's personnal problem, but still go along the "raid behavior is getting worse lately" theme.
And yet, most people I see complaining about RDMs (and sometimes SMNs) are not complaining about their damage; they complain when the RDM won't raise someone if the healer simply isn't in a position to (e.g., no Swiftcast, lots of raid-wide damage, multiple deaths, squishy tank...the list goes on). I've even ran into RDMs that won't raise whenever both healers are down, and instead we either wipe (8 mans) or wait for someone else to pick us up (24 man).

I'm more likely to call you out for not using Verraise to help instead of your damage. Just like I call out DPS that won't AOE when appropriate. A RDM or a SMN that won't help their party via raising when necessary is just as bad as a tank who won't use cooldowns or a BRD that won't use Refresh.

Use your kit.