So SE.. Hows your new wards working out?

[Madbunny]

though I understand how hard it can be to leave friends behind transferring and can imagine how awful it would be leaving behind the best RP community in ffxiv to some mediocre one somewhere else hoping you could grow it into something decent

They could take entire FC and all the friends and maybe even other FC's with them while they transfer. The only people what have any reason to stay are the ones who already have a house, but i'm sure we dont see them complaining.
Speaking of other RP communities... you actually said if isnt Balmung you suck and no one wants to go there. Well ok, i'm sure many RP's will not agree with you but you have right to your opinion.

[MizArai]

They could take entire FC and all the friends and maybe even other FC's with them while they transfer.

Not everyone can afford the $18 transfer fee, so it's not that easy to just take everyone with you. The days of free transfers are over. There are no more congested servers, yet.

The only people what have any reason to stay are the ones who already have a house, but i'm sure we dont see them complaining.

I've actually seen quite a few people on Balmung who have a house complaining about how they need more houses, probably because they still have many friends who want houses and can't get them. Some of them say it took forever for them to get a house, so they understand the plight of others, so they're hoping to get SE to help change things. There are many different reasons that people would argue for change, and they are not all selfish.

Speaking of other RP communities... you actually said if isnt Balmung you suck and no one wants to go there. Well ok, i'm sure many RP's will not agree with you but you have right to your opinion.

What I said was there is no other server with such an established RP community. That's a fact. If someone from Balmung went to any other server, the RP community would be lacking by comparison. Does that mean they suck? No, not even close. It just means they don't have the size and the ability to do everything that people are used to on Balmung. It also means it would be a huge quality of RP life adjustment for people transferring to a new server and that if they wanted something like what they had before, then they would have to help build up the RP community wherever they transferred.