Quote Originally Posted by Hestzhyen View Post
He's not really being an a-hole like some of you guys are painting him. His perspective is "if you don't want grief among strangers, don't share information about yourself". And that's perfectly reasonable given how when you pug you never know who you're talking to, what state of mind they're in, or what will set them off. If you're in a private chat like what's being advertised in this thread then sure, be yourself. But when you are with randoms, watch what you say. This goes for far more than sexual orientation or gender identity.
I haven't implied anyone is an asshole in this thread.

As Rokke above mentioned, it's not like people bust out of the gates with their name, followed shortly by what their sexual preference is. However, none of us can tell if that new person we just met will end up being someone we spend more time with or possibly become friends with down the road. If you're from the same Discord group, I would imagine it takes away most of the worry/stress over what may happen if/when certain topics come up.