to me it doesn't matter as long as it isn't in my face. Of course if it's an RP server that I joined, I shouldn't be complaining, that's my own fault even tho it might have been not marked as such. But if it's on an server, that is not known for RP then it should be kept to tells/linkshells/company chats and not the regular zone/say chat. Same for ERP, I don't care what people do in their free time, but again keep it out of Zone/Say chat otherwise there's always the chance that some players will get reported, and GM's actually do take action in these kind of cases, especially if there's ERP on Zone chat.