Fool, you ain't special.
If you've got a problem, run fixed. If you're in the minority, run fixed. If you're the only one in your party who wants to get all the boxes, run fixed. If you're the only one who cares, run fixed. If they fall into any of those categories, they can go run fixed.
Also, what's this "If you disagree you can't queue" crap? I'll dissent your terrible opinion all I want. Get out.
Now see? This makes sense. This is what I do. I'm 99/99 too unless I want more kinna gear, and I'll still stop and help pick up silver chests along the way or scout rooms, because I don't mind. And if everyone else wants to speedrun? Cool, I can do that. All ya gotta do really is talk with your group. A lot of people are flexible and willing to help- it's not a huge amount of people who get so sussed that they can't do what they want they make a forum topic about it.
I respect the people I'm in a group with by default. But if they start acting up, I ain't gonna put up with it.