Quote Originally Posted by Ferth View Post
Furthermore why should one person get to hold three people hostage because they want something different? If the majority of the group wants to explore for chests, fine. If the majority wants to speed run, that should be fine, too..
This is the direction the discussion usually takes. Just as you can't force anyone to speed run, you can't force them not to. No one's right, no one's wrong.

Where people go wrong is the moment they decide for the other person how it's gonna go. Are you the one guy who forcefully slows down the group? Or perhaps the healer that stops healing in protest/spite of not getting your way? Are you the guy that silently takes off before anyone even manages a "hi"? Because THAT'S the person who's wrong. And to the people saying "just deal with it" or "just accept it", no. That's what kills people's desire to run content. That's what kills queues and forces people to ONLY run anything with their cliques. And while there's nothing even wrong with that, it's overall unhealthy for content that's currently limited to just your server.

Best thing to do - I know this sounds crazy - is to communicate. Ask for what you want. If everyone's cool, great. If not, politely excuse yourself. No harm, no foul.