I really don't care if I come across as not nice towards this person. But I always try to be as nice to everyone as possible, and that includes right now. Is he being "nice"? I wouldn't say so. Nowhere did I say I don't respect his opinion. I do. He's entitled to it, to express it. I respect he feels that way. He's allowed to not like seeing men in dresses. To be oversensitive if it really bothers him so much (It *is* oversensitive). I never said otherwise. But there is something a lot of people don't seem to understand about opinions: They DO have value, and how valuable they are is all about the context. When it comes to someone else's freedom to express themselves, his opinion that he doesn't want to see it is less valuable because it doesn't actually effect him as much as it effects the person wanting to express themselves. To put it another way, because he isn't as effected he has less say in the matter. It's as simple as that really.