Pvp Behavior Is Embarrasing

[FreeKingStefan]

Can I ask why you find it acceptable to be cursed out & verbally abused? Are you from a society where being unpleasant to others is a way of life? I don't. I come to Eorzea for fun, not to be told to "go get raped", "die of cancer" & worse. The fact that you're allowing people to do it without consequences is just as bad, if not worse, than doing it yourself.

I reported the abuse I got & decided to remove myself from the situation. If someone kicked me in the head I wouldn't go back & plead for more. >_>

I come from a place called earth where you cannot control the actions of other people. I don't let a couple of bad words stop me from doing things I enjoy, because frankly, I'm not that thin skinned.

[kensatsu]

keep moving even if you get insult, offcourse, insult don't have to stop you, if you have the competive spirit it won't stop you.
but keep moving from insult and accept and think insult is ok. it's a different things.
The pvp community is not realy toxic anyway, everyone is not insulting others, hopefully. it's not more toxic than pve, there no community without a little of toxic sauce. it's not something only existing in pvp.

[abbas]

pvp ranked mode in general has intense environment and because there is no practice solo mode 4v4 for new players, it is expected to get bad attitude from ppl who are skilled and have exp at you for being new... especiallly if you are healer... ok imagine this.. put yourself in my position. ( you know 85% of the skilled op monsters name of pvp players in the data center. you get in a match. you see your party and you see the enemy party and recognize 1 monster dps and 1 monster war and a decent healer with them. you know they can one shot kill your healer in less than 5 sec.. and before the gates open.. you read this from the healer " hi guys. im new to this, lets do our best ". you understand that his " best " is un-comparable to the monsters " best " infront . you lose faith get frustrated ) that is just one situation of many that happen with new players.. Im sorry that new players get treated badly by some. if only there is practice solo mode 4v4 we can avoid all of this.

[Vaeria]

In the end..this is all Yoshi's fault for trying to make a politically correct PvP-Paradise of decency for all. Solution? Grow a pair. Cussing out nooblets (and vets, woo~) goes as much hand in hand with mmo pvp as does a box of Kleenx and a copy of- nvm. Its a time honored tradition..a rite of passage. Personally myself, I LIKE getting critized, insulted, and told do go fornicate with a cactus. Cuz sooner or later, yer gonna be on the other team...and thats when it reeeeally gets fun. THATS good PvP!

If you want kindness and friendship..start a warm fc. Go stand in town and give 1 million gil to every noobie running by...you'll get LOTS of kind words then. Let PvP be the wasteland of rudeness that its always been. All things considered, even at its worst in 14 its still mild. (Ballista days long gone by..where there was shout..and sending personalized 'aaah haa..yer mom died ina car accident' tells.)

Then again..whys this even a topic? If youre that bothered by comments, just switch chat modes to a silent screen. No, doesnt improve team communication but w/e..

[Dumbledoremd]

The only thing this type of behavior is doing is pushing people away from pvp gg guys you are killing pvp

[P4X0R10N]

There is never a valid reason for toxic behavior.

Ever.

Period.

If you pvp try hards are so bothered by incompetent players then you should play a game with competitive pvp that allows you to queue as a premades group.

Otherwise just keep your toxic comments to yourself and try to act like a half way decent human being.

Or just quit ffxiv. You won't be missed.

[Nakanishi]

There is never a valid reason for toxic behavior.

Ever.

Period.

If you pvp try hards are so bothered by incompetent players then you should play a game with competitive pvp that allows you to queue as a premades group.

Otherwise just keep your toxic comments to yourself and try to act like a half way decent human being.

Or just quit ffxiv. You won't be missed.

FYI, You can queue as a premade in this game in Feast. Please tell PvEr's to stop being so toxic as well.

[P4X0R10N]

I come from a place called earth where you cannot control the actions of other people. I don't let a couple of bad words stop me from doing things I enjoy, because frankly, I'm not that thin skinned.

There's a difference between being thin skinned and being callous. No one has to put up with abuse. Least of all when using a service they're paying for.

We all signed an end user agreement. Part of that agreement means we play by the rules set forth by SE.

They don't like toxicity.

Either play by their rules and stay civil
or get out.

Those that can't handle losing without getting bent out of shape should just quit ffxiv.

[P4X0R10N]

FYI, You can queue as a premade in this game in Feast. Please tell PvEr's to stop being so toxic as well.

Not in solo. Which is the only mode with rewards so good try.

[Nakanishi]

Except that there are rewards tied to premade queue. Good try.