Not to be salty, really. But that's the best and most precise description of the whole FFXIV.
I can only speak directly on behalf of those who I've spent lots of time with in game. My somewhat large FC has had many great times -- none were in Diadem.

I mean, I understand the point you're trying to make, but FFXIV has a lot going for it. Heck, enough people love the game to sell out two fan fests.