Unfortunately, it is likely time for you to move on if you're quitting over getting a bad DF party within 3 days of a new patch with new content. Hopefully you can find a game that's more entertaining to you. Personally, I'm glad to see this thought process go and I hope this patch leads to a sort of culling of people who adhere to it.
Not just one, several. Like I said, the game has gotten too tiresome to keep playing.

However, myself and many others seem to be on the opposite end of the spectrum from you. You know what content I found tedious and aggravating? Face-rolling my way through Anti-tower and Lost City of Amdapor day in and day out for my lore tomes or trying not to pass out as I dozed my way through the snooze-fest of Void Ark for the umpteenth time.
I actually liked these dungeons because they didn't take an hour to complete, even with "bad" parties.

The sad thing is, though, that given a week or two, all of this content will be just as mind-numbingly tedious as you desire it to be,
It's already gotten mind-numbingly tedious. It wasn't before. That's my whole point.