you exactly proved my point. Your sisters IRL, they know you and trust you, I would have too probably, but not coming from anyone and all, to me words from an unknow that comes to me and tell me you are bad and you should play so and so or even if polite, are only words and I dont generally listen, simply because is just not something that is part of who I am, BUT I also dont leave and insult players because they play the way they want to play or dont know how to play....comes down to responsability, when you click accept to enter a group in DF that is (PF is a whole other thing), you accept whatever comes your way or..you leave on your accord and not throw out the others...I call that being mature.
To whoever said that we MUST call out who plays *bad*, in virtue of what woudl you do so ? who are you to do so ? who gave you this power ? you just think that you have all the rights just because you can play or supposedly play, again what does the next person knows about you that you are soooo grand good and godly to allow yourself to call another bad ? again nothing forces you and nobody asks you to...you just decided to take that up with yourself and do it, even Mentors dont know most of the time how a class works and just because they have a crow they think they can call out others and often then not with stupid advices.
I would rather suggest to people to concentrate on themselves and if they dont like something just leave the party.
As I have said multilple times I dont agree either with the penalty as it punishes the people that, like me, leave on their accord if they dont like it but then there is so much abuse by again imature people that well sometimes between the devil and his son you have to choose one of the two.