Pffth. I'm a girl, that plays a girl. I don't like the dance, but I'm not bitching at SE to change it. It's based on the realistic tradition. Really, this whining and bitching is almost as silly as men not being able to wear female glamours. I can understand the logic. (Cross dress, drag queens, etc, so I find their concern to be valid.)

The dance isn't just a dance, it's the dance of a warrior, which was generally men back in the day. It makes them look intimidating, etc.