to the OP:
parsers DONT really matter that much. often times, you can look at people's hate gauges and get somewhat of an idea of what people are doing damage-wise

second, if you want to see parsers have alot less use? get SE to stop making phases push-able and stop putting in content that have dps checks, until that happens, they will still be there

to anyone else that despises parsers or just want to play to have fun?
avoid any content that has dps checks and you arnt doing yourself or anyone else any favors
use PF to build your own group instead or get a carry group
yes it sucks that it is said, but you can blame yourself and SE for your weakness and the high ceiling on that content

if you really do want to do that content, dont be affraid to ask for assistance to get better, like rotations and tips, and dont be afraid to ask people to parse you
(many people that do have parsers are helpful.....but not all sadly)