How do you deal with sluggish tanks?

[Malevicton]

If you've stated that you'd prefer big pulls at the beginning and the rest of the party agrees then I would say your in the right.

If your just doing it without communicating, then i'm fine with not noticing the pull.

Communications solves 99% of these problems people. A good attitude also helps.

I tend to communicate. And the response tends to be " ".

If you don't wanna notice the pull that's fine. I consider it a bonus if the tank jumps in. I only pull extra if I know I can handle it.

It's not meant to be a passive agressive insult to the tank. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯