I don't have any problems with my limitless blue ex parties.

We all state "learning fight, try to clear" and people come on, once they see the dps isn't good, they leave, we grab another, same thing, grab another and after 2 days? we cleared it.

during the whole time no one was rude, everyone was pretty cool about it, people were like "yea the dps isn't good enough, sorry im leaving" "i'm leaving after this try" etc. etc.

then again, i'm on JP servers.