Quote Originally Posted by Rubieus View Post
The problem isn't their failure but in your way of dealing with it. Cheer them on, encourage them. I often use [Let's do it!] and cheer emote. I tank alot of coil in DF and most of the time it ends in failure. But if you cheer and encourage. You might be pleasantly surprised how much harder they try because they want to appease the Karma Gods. If it doesn't work, oh well, queue again.
As a DPS, I disagree with this. We don't need to be coddled; if our DPS isn't sufficient, just say so. That should be enough to prompt people to step up their game, and if even that isn't enough to meet a DPS check and the DPS are all meeting the ilvl requirements, then it's time for them to take a good hard look at their rotations.