Is ff 14. Too feminine?

[Magis]

I am not intending this thread to insult people. It is just an issue occurred where my nephews were going to play ff with me noticed the little lady's day event and looked up the outfits in the game. Now they are telling me they are not going to play the game with me because it is too girly. Are we going a bit too far in the aesthetics department of design as of late in this depiction that would cause a lot of male players not to even try this game?

It's a Japanese game with an anime influenced aesthetic, are you surprised or something?

Aesthetic is good as it is and separates itself from all the other copy cat games. The only complaint I have is sometimes it's a bit over the top (specifically glows and giant armour) and repetition (a lot of armour seems the same with slight variation).