Pro tip: Tell me you're new to a dungeon /rant

[Mishini_Dracoto]

My PARTY didn't want to, the HEALER did. One of the DPSses was my Fiancée doing her first lvl 50 dungeon with her main, who CLEARLY didn't want a SR, and the other DPS was OK with either.

In that case, he did exactly that. Ran off, brought 5-6 mobs and parked next to me. What I did? stopped using AoEs, and began cycling only through the mobs I was already engaged. Healer died and learned his place. It's not by holding himself hostage that he'll dictate the pace of the dungeon run.

I honestly don't understand not wanting to do runs quickly, except in certain circumstances, such as if there are cutscenes.

Why do you want to complete the dungeon, in an hour, instead of 20 minutes? If your Fianceé is a DPS, and DPS' as best as they can, and can kill all the mobs, then great. If your healer pulls more mobs, you get threat on them, and you all wipe, THEN you say "hey, don't do that, or we won't pick them up." but why not Try?