there's a lot of sensitive people in this game

[ChiiSoSeriouz]

So, you shouldn't be able to comment on the basic fundamental principles of the game you should know like the back of your hand long before you reach coil until you actually reach coil? Got it.

This game is not coil, and your comment reeks of elitism.

Elitism so what?

If anyone were to comment on what i should or should not be doing as a healer, then follow that with "horrible" and "bad" while your gear and experience is low on the matter, you will be called out on it. I'll dps if feel like it, it's by no means mandatory. An exceptional healer is responsible for the pt safety and does so at an outstanding level through adversity. High tier fights separate the average from the exceptional.

[Ladyaceous]

Elitism so what?

If anyone were to comment on what i should or should not be doing as a healer, then follow that with "horrible" and "bad" while your gear and experience is low on the matter, you will be called out on it. I'll dps if feel like it, it's by no means mandatory. An exceptional healer is responsible for the pt safety and does so at an outstanding level through adversity. High tier fights separate the average from the exceptional.

Elitism so what huh? People shouldn't comment on healers dpsing if they don't have coil drops huh?

Well, if you had to get to coil to understand that healers can and should dps when appropriate and not "when they feel like it" then you are most likely an average coil healer and not an exceptional coil healer. Gear or no gear. That makes you a beta elitist which is worse than the real McCoys. Based on the two statements you've made, I'd say it's likely you got carried....and I'm "calling you out on it". "I'll dps in coil when I feel like it"...just lol.

It's not rocket science people. No one is saying healers should carelessly sacrifice healing for dps and cc. If a healer stands around with a full mana bar not dpsing at all when a tank hardly needs heals they are not playing well.

New emote for Miqo'te /beeotch slap with tail.

[Kiroh]

Elitism so what huh? People shouldn't comment on healers dpsing if they don't have coil drops huh?

Well, if you had to get to coil to understand that healers can and should dps when appropriate and not "when they feel like it" then you are most likely an average coil healer and not an exceptional coil healer. Gear or no gear. That makes you a beta elitist which is worse than the real McCoys. Based on the two statements you've made, I'd say it's likely you got carried....and I'm "calling you out on it". "I'll dps in coil when I feel like it"...just lol.

Meanwhile he's talking about higher level gear when every healer piece 100 or over, including dungeon drops, has ACC on it. Now why would Accuracy be on healer gear when it does nothing for cures I wonder, I mean it's literally impossible for a cure to miss.

Lazy players will find any justification to be lazy, the gear has a stat only useful for DPS :
http://xivdb.com/?search/!filters/Ik...RBVEVEXzA6Ig==

The Conjurer npc explicitly tells you you should be doing more than healing :

"Adventurers such as yourself oft stand upon the front lines of battle. Owing to this, you are like to find yourself in many situations wherein a capacity for healing would be advantageous. Mind you, there is more to conjury than that.

By harnessing the power of earth, wind, and water, conjurers are also capable of weaving spells that wreak havoc.

In terms of sheer destructive power, conjury may pale in comparison to thaumaturgy, but its capacity to defend one against aggression more than compensates for this relative shortcoming.

More than simple healers, yet not true dealers of destruction, conjurers realize their full potential when they employ their powers in support of others. This, my dear adventurer, is what it means to be one of us."

And the entirety of conjurer's questline is about using more than just cures, with lore sprinkled in for reasoning.

But I have a feeling this "final coil or gtfo" guy is one of these anyways :

[lxChrisxl]

that picture never gets old for me lol

[Deculture]

This is the only response that should be used when dealing with terrible players with paper thin skin. Anything more is a waste of your own time.

[ChiiSoSeriouz]

Elitism so what huh? People shouldn't comment on healers dpsing if they don't have coil drops huh?

Well, if you had to get to coil to understand that healers can and should dps when appropriate and not "when they feel like it" then you are most likely an average coil healer and not an exceptional coil healer. Gear or no gear. That makes you a beta elitist which is worse than the real McCoys. Based on the two statements you've made, I'd say it's likely you got carried....and I'm "calling you out on it". "I'll dps in coil when I feel like it"...just lol.
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That's a lot of assuming there about me, all of which completely false ofc, but let's just say while i may have a machiavellian view on things in this game, i can back it up for real and anyone whos played with me knows it. Anyways ...

[Huntington]

One thing I'm learning lately is that unless you went into a duty with 5 of your friends outnumbering everyone you don't know, don't even attempt to point out something about another player and how they're playing.



I've been polite, and I've been an arsehole, and the result ends up the same every time for me. I get kicked, and someone else gets to go about their day playing sub-optimally. The best excuse for this though is the "doing it's job alright" argument. I have to give credit to Yahtzee for coining this term as far as I've ever been aware.
Is the tank holding enmity on everything? Then he/she's doing it's job alright.
Is the DPS doing ANY damage at all? Then he/she's doing it's job alright.
Is the healer keeping everyone alive? Then he/she's doing it's job alright.

People time and again use this as a justification for a Bard never singing songs when asked to no matter how many times people ask or request it, or a DRG not keeping up Heavy Thrust at all times and just doing the standard Thrust combo over and over, or a Tank going ham with enmity at the start of a pull, then AFK'ing as the DPS and others kill everything while they stand there and eat all AoEs and so forth.
Truth be told, it's likely not going to change. From my experiences, I've asked nicely and spoken politely, and other time's I've said "So are you going to play more effectively and stop wasting our time or not?" and so on. My only knowledge that I've come away from this with is that it's better to say nothing at all unless you want to try and argue with the people defending those practices, which is me a lot of the times when I have given up caring about finishing the dungeon and instead want to interrogate the people in the party and question them on why they tolerate something, like my most recent Qarn HM run, which was very entertaining for me!

[Gardes]

So have you guys thought and talked about why people are so "screw the group i play how i want" in this game? What exactly is encouraging this behavior?