Don't tell me what to do!

[Aldora]

If run in itself is going smoothly, then there is no real reason to complain about it. It might not be in a manner that would please everyone, but all that matters is that the Duty will be completed.

If you see that someone isn't fully utilizing their class or is making mistakes, it’s ok to tell them and how they can improve in a constructive manner. It’s not ok to just call someone out, telling them that they “suck”.

If someone tells me that i’m doing something wrong, i’ll apologize and try to improve unless the situation requires me to do otherwise. For instance, if someone tells me that i’m not DPS’ing as a healer, I’ll tell the person that my focus lies on keeping the party healthy and DPS’ing comes second. I’ll DPS when the situation allows me to. They don’t have to agree with me, but they will have to deal with it nonetheless. They can complain all they want, but it won’t change the outcome.

If i see someone else complaining about someone else’s skills, but the duty is still progressing in a normal fashion, then i’ll tell him/her to simmer down and focus on their own task so that we can clear the Duty rather than bickering about it.

But, i was in a WoD run last night were 2 DPS where literally flying at each others throats during the fight. I wanted to tell them to calm down and focus on their own tasks rather than bickering about mechanics and who was right, but i was too busy healing the party while trying to figure out the battle myself.

However, there are times (when 2 people are fighting amongst themselves) that you can best stay out of it and let them handle it themselves.