Uhhh.. Just a few things I guess? Why would you be so against taking hate in Satasha? It's like... really easy and it probably would have been a smoother run if you just kept all your equips on and tanked everything while your CNJ healed you. If they complained you could have explained that you being such a high level and such that it was easier that way?
Also the thing about Fire II? If the tank couldn't keep hate off you how do you think he would be able to keep it off an AoEing THM? It was smart for him to just use Fire.
And I don't think your CNJ fell asleep. From what I could gather from what you said it seems like she had plenty to do.
But I guess I can understand where you were coming from. Sort of.