Thank you both for your answers.

@Donjo yeah with Acc capped I'm a bit more free to do what I want with gear and Parry Vs DET don't bother me that much but the people who I seemed to have the discussion with made it seemed like you have Parry your shit.

@Sirtaint I always find parry to be handy for Physical attacks. Don't suppose you can go into more detail as to why it's more useful?