Myth Message being used to excluded players

[BlaiseArath]

1000char

Not to disagree, though I'm totally going to disagree.

The only reason I do main scenario, Moogle Hard, Leviathan Hard, and Ramuh hard is because i actively fish for newbies. That soldiery bonus is the only good thing to come out of those dungeons... and without fail, everytime I see the message, the party is happy about it, not upset. Even when I did T7, as a new person, no one cared and one dude had DreadWyrm armor, and when we got to the boss, the only thing that was said was "I saw the new message, anyone need a run down of the fight?", I told them it was me, saw the video, and was prepared. We lost the first round due to a bad petrify, and no one rage quit... won the second round, and surprisingly enough no one blamed me (the new guy!) for the first failure! (Cause I actually did know the fight and wasn't the cause of the wipe, surprising how education works)

So, I'm not saying it never happens... I'm sure it does, theres a lot of jerks out there... but if said new person sucks at the fight, the party is going to disband or boot them anyway, regardless of a myth message being displayed. I know I'm probably a rare case here but I'm genuinely excited when I see the Soldiery/Bonus message, and In most groups every member I'm with is happy about it too.

I get the problem exists but I don't think its as rampant as implied here.