When is it OK to say, "It's Not OK"

[Ellatrix]

Seems people are stuck in the "make it to the top" mindset. I get really tired when people tell me "oh find a raiding FC", "Make a Static", "Build your own party" and etc. Those are the worst reasons anyone can give. The only people saying these reasons are people most likely already in a static when they were already in a formed FC so they were first pick.

Build a static. Be a leader. This is how you get somewhere.

Your mindset is basically "sit back and hope someone fishes me out of the pool of everyone else"?