Quote Originally Posted by Lillia View Post
I'm not trying to be rude but don't you think it's harsh to even be frustrated that your daughter got something for the effort she put in at all? That trophy you're talking about could just be her motive to get better and reach a higher place next year.
I never said anything that I was frustrated with my daughter. I didn't bash her and of course I praised her. I'm frustrated with the system. All the kids get trophies for participating, and I'm against this train of thought. It should teach kids that if they didn't get a trophy, and they are upset about it and really want one, then they need to work hard and practice and get better.