I get what you mean but I would like to have a choice to search for players who are in the same or similiar boat I am. I also do not know what it has to do with prejudice when I ask for clearance for something I have on Farm status and can't be bothered to train anymore - unless sby asks me for help and I agree. I am not a dick and nowhere near a Hardcore player. I have Patience and also give people a chance and do not leave after 2 wipes like some do. But I am also no student anymore so my time is limited and I need several hours for a fight that takes five minutes and this doesn't feel right, especially because it is all of the time because of the same reason. People not meeting your search conditions and joining nevertheless.

There is a difference between training, getting your first win and having something on Farm mode. When I am new to a fight and need a group, I search for a training party, speficially mentioning the phase I need training. When I am close to kill a new fight, I start a group search "aim for the win" so everybody knows that this is for people who are close to the win already. When I have defeated a boss 1st time, I do not claim to have the fight on Farm mode, this is the follow up, after having defeated a content a few times. It is about honesty, sadly something you can't put your bet on all players. I would never ever join a farm group hoping they carry me through it. Or a kill party where previous kills are mandatory per group search description but I haven't downed it once.