I don't really understand, it makes you sound like you are doing random df with random players without knowing who's going to roll on what. In the PF tool there's always older coil greed parties going on. And if you want it really that badly you can always create your own PF group and lock that piece to yourself. So I cannot sympathize with you, and you're not entitled to a specific gear gear in a random instance through DF. You should really try joining up with premade parties through DF if you want to farm your healing gear from turn 2.