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    Quote Originally Posted by Killance View Post
    I take advice when I ask. Don't get snippy about subjects, I don't want it to get locked for getting off topic.

    TRY to keep it FRIENDLY!
    Honestly, you should accept any advice given. Asked for or not. Following the advice on the other hand, depends if it's useful or not. But only accepting it if you ask for it, is hurting yourself or your group. If someone notices something you're doing is dragging the group down, but you don't see it, they should just keep to themselves or leave? Or even try to kick you? Instead of giving advice of course.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ispano View Post
    Honestly, you should accept any advice given. Asked for or not. Following the advice on the other hand, depends if it's useful or not. But only accepting it if you ask for it, is hurting yourself or your group. If someone notices something you're doing is dragging the group down, but you don't see it, they should just keep to themselves or leave? Or even try to kick you? Instead of giving advice of course.
    I believe I already answered a similar post.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Killance View Post
    I believe I already answered a similar post.
    No, you've made it clear that you only take advice if asked for, which is selfish. Unasked for advice is criticism, no matter the person's tone or wording. By choosing to ignore ANY unasked for advice, you are harming your group, period.

    Note that this is different than using said advice. If someone tells me i'm doing something wrong, even if the information is incorrect, I will think about it for a moment, not ignore it out of hand. Regardless of their tone or wording.

    It's basically like this. You: If I don't know something, i'll ask. But what if you don't know that you don't know?
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    Last edited by ispano; 05-27-2014 at 07:53 AM.

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    Oh, my God... I just read all the thread.

    Ok, uh... I do agree that you should take advice. Even if you ask for it or not. It's really self-centered to not accept a critic, despite if it was rude or not. If people call you out for something or they give you some advice, you should double check what you're doing. Yes, people play this for fun, but YOUR fun is hurting other's people fun. Yes, it does. That's why I say it's very self-centered. And yes, everybody is paying for this, but guess what, nobody is aiming you with a sniper rifle all day if you don't pay for it. It's your choice if you do. You can have MORE fun if you learn your class, take advice and do the things you're supposed to do. That's why the game is not only three big red button that says "ATTACK" // "HEAL" // "TANK". There're skills and descriptions. Combos and rotations. Cooldowns and buffs. Debuffs and reaction-skills.

    Even if you're not a raider, you should take a chance and learn your class. If people say something, even if they're playing with a different role, their opinion is not less significant because people can play anything here. Saying this, they might or they might not be experienced with that class. It's way better if they point these flaws out, or do you prefer them to leave without saying a word? I said this before, saying "don't tell me what to do" is childish. That's the kind of answer I can expect from a little kid/teenager discussing with his/her mom, not an adult.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyrus-Wallace View Post
    Oh, my God... I just read all the thread.

    Ok, uh... I do agree that you should take advice. Even if you ask for it or not. It's really self-centered to not accept a critic, despite if it was rude or not.
    Even if you're not a raider, you should take a chance and learn your class.
    This tells me you haven't read the entire thread otherwise you wouldn't have added that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Killance View Post
    This tells me you haven't read the entire thread otherwise you wouldn't have added that.
    Yeah, sorry for giving my opinion as you did with your thread. Also, I mentioned I agreed with that statement.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyrus-Wallace View Post
    Yeah, sorry for giving my opinion as you did with your thread. Also, I mentioned I agreed with that statement.
    Just save it. I think this is a troll. He's allowed to be short with people and get annoyed at advice but everyone else has to be nice and think of his feelings.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shigaru View Post
    Just save it. I think this is a troll. He's allowed to be short with people and get annoyed at advice but everyone else has to be nice and think of his feelings.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyrus-Wallace View Post
    My sentiments exactly about Shigaru and possibly you, not sure yet.
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