Learning to Tank

[Arakatos]

I was going to toss in that using Provoke right before Savage Blade and after Fast Blade works really well to retain enmity.

Also if you think of maintaining Blind through Flash that help others even if they pull aggro. .

The purpose of provoke is not to retain enmity. This is one of the key things to learn as a tank as you level and tank more content. All provoke does is give you +1 enmity relative to the player with the highest enmity which includes yourself. So shield lobbing a mob before anyone aggros has the same effect as provoking. Provoking inbetween combos actually decreases your aggro because when you do so, you are actually resetting the enmity table back to +1 from the highest enmity player, who is yourself. Therefore provoke should be reserved for the mob who got away and is b-lining your healer or when tank swapping for harder content.

I just made it to level 40 and unlocked shield oath but I haven't been able to test it. Assuming shield oath helps more with aggro, why would anyone use sword oath?

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I know as a healer doing DPS, I've sometimes made some tanks feel very uncomfortable because I have let their HP drop, so I suppose that might explain what I am encountering. So should I ask the healer to focus more on heals? Or is the healer worried about aggro from healing and holding off on the heals?

Some contents require tank swapping so using Sword Oath does more DPS and draws less aggro until you need to swap again.

Trust your healer, pop a CD and fight on regardless of your HP. Review only if wipe, most likely the healer will learn to top you off better since whatever he/she was doing was not working. Bad healers will of course blame you, for varying reasons but I assume you aren't over pulling, DPS isn't taking dmg for no reason and you are dodging then it's the healer who needs to wake up.