Why don't skilled players help people who are struggling?

[HakuroDK]

Same rule applies here for:
If you run into an asshole for the day, you ran into an asshole.
If you keep running into assholes, you're the asshole.

You know, I believed this for the longest time. I kept running into assholes, so I honestly believed I was the asshole. Until I realized that I help people, I go out of my way to be nice to others, and I feel good when my efforts make someone else feel good about themselves. Then suddenly, through that realization, it dawned on me that I'm not an asshole, the RNG is an asshole who keeps shoving other assholes into my face.