This issue will never be fixed, your best option is to stop bitching about it and try another class. They could make it five DPS in every party and one tank one healer, and you would still complain about having to wait 20/30 minutes compared to a Tank's instant. DPS are a dime a dozen easy mode thing that everyone wants to do. Your job is to just hit things for most of the content. It has the lowest barrier of entry and you'll always see DPS be the highest amount of people. Always.


You're literally part of the problem if you're a DPS complaining about waiting forever. If you don't like that DPS wait so long, go another role so OTHER DPSers don't have to wait as long and you get an instant queue as well.

"Oh but that's not fun" oh well sucks to be you. I'd love to play a Dragoon or Monk over PLD half the time, but I also like making other people have fun rather then just myself like a brat.