Odd healing question

[Jyoeru]

I have refused to heal an unruly player. But, now that I am leveling a tank, I like the challenge of keeping hate. It's not hard, even when people are on different targets, once you have the tools. Lower levels can be a bit of a pain, but not really. Low enough level dungeons shouldn't be hard to deal with when this happens. You're not wrong for how you handled it, but there are certainly more productive ways.

[Rbstr]

But, now that I am leveling a tank, I like the challenge of keeping hate. It's not hard, even when people are on different targets, once you have the tools. Lower levels can be a bit of a pain, but not really. Low enough level dungeons shouldn't be hard to deal with when this happens.

Before you've got your 3rd combo and enmity buff stance it can be difficult. Especially with well-geared roulette DPS. At least it's not too bad when things go wrong.
If DPS isn't going to hit marked targets sometimes it's just not worth it. On the bees in quarn, I just let the non-primary one go and sting the jerk who doesn't pay attention.

Now that I've played on the other side of the heals, I can't believe how pissy some healers get. "Put some real tank gear on I can't keep up" "I'm wearing like two dps accs, man. Missing a whopping 4 parry. Maybe heal out of cleric stance?" "It wouldn't be a problem if you were wearing tank gear" *vote to abandon* "wat"