
Originally Posted by
thedevilsjester
Well it is entirely, without question, opinion based. It is my opinion that the party mechanic is a small part of an MMORPG. I have met some people that feel that the 95% (or there abouts) of most MMORPG's are just leading you up to the last 5% (end game content) and that the entire game is meaningless until you reach that stage. To me, an MMORPG is a lot more than just questing (for lore or gear) or grinding for exp, which are really the only aspects of the game that a party mechanic is employed in. Crafting, exploration, harvesting, talking with people in chat channels, having discussions with your LS, and many other activities are done without a party mechanic (although you could employ one, for example partying up to harvest so you can harvest in dangerous areas, etc...) and these make up a lot of what I feel is an important aspect of an MMORPG. It all really boils down to what aspects of an MMORPG are "worth" more to you. For example someone who doesn't participate in anything except quests and instances (who is arguably missing out on a lot of the game, similar to how someone who would refuse to party would miss out on a lot of end game) would probably feel that the parts of the game that utilise a party mechanic are "the game" with the rest just being extras.
Again it is all about how you choose to enjoy the game, and what aspects appeal more to you. Thankfully FFXIV is great in these aspects and provides outlets for almost every game play style you could want.
I do party on occasion. I try to avoid it whenever possible, but when friends, or on occasion random people, need help, or if I need to complete some group based instance for gear or items, I do not sit there and whine about groups, I suck it up, grab my weapon of choice, and party. I never (for the record) say (even to myself) that they should make this or that content soloable so I can do it by myself. I played FFXI, arguably the most party centric MMORPG I know, for many many years and not once complained about the game not being solo friendly.