The 40-41-40-41 pattern is what i followed the 1% is for the damage that is prevented NOT parry rate which is what is determined by DEX.
My data pool is admittedly tiny as I said in my post but I'll try and compare over time rather than spending a few hours crunching numbers.
Parry to me right now certainly seems more important than a larger HP pool (by a few hundred anyway).
ATM i'm aiming my war at +parry/dex>STR>VIT
Lol it doesn't matter what you say around here someone flames someone

Second post on this thread showed that. Some peole hate theorycrafting and discussion I guess
Only reason I started this was because of Yoshi saying "More research needed to be done for WAR as currently people have it wrong" (paraphrased).
The current trend being a VIT dump I started looking at DEX and wondering if someone had done the complicated leg work for me much like VALKS has for PLD on his site!