kimi that is not always the case. I met some nice ppl with cross server stuff in WoW. what SE can do wuth cross server grouping is add cross server ingore lists and friend lists similar to WoW. I was on a different server then my ex, and was still able to chat with him using the realid system.

And I also met tons of rude ppl in ffxi. So ppl caring about their rep is not really true. I met psychos and stalkers in any game cross server or not.

You guys keep telling me not to base my opinion on other games, yet you guys are doing so. All SE wants to do is make grouping as fast as possible. So one wants to wait 6 or more hours trying to find groups due to playing at odd times. No one wants to waut days inorder to get help for a quests or boss fight.

Let them add it and wait to see if it is bad. And no one is forcing you to use it. Why punish those who want it or even need it?

Server communities are not effected by cross server activities, the only thing it effects os how ppl tolerate certain things.