The problem is half of the things you listed are either A) not going to be present at launch or B) they aren't anything unique to FFXIV or both. Plenty of other MMOs have had story quests, PVP, 300+ quests, raids, etc.
Finally, disregarding someone as simply "mad because they didn't get into Alpha" is pretty petty. The fact that so many people here react to criticism of any kind on ARR as a personal attack really reflects poorly on our community. I think most, if not all of us, here want ARR to succeed, but ignoring people's opinions is part of what got XIV into this mess in the first place.