That being said my part in bumping this thread/taking part in it is done..
I know I'm not going to convince any SSM activists on this. We just have a fundamental disconnect on the definition of what marriage actually is.

If we can't even agree on the premise, then we are just arguing apples and oranges. No amount of discussion will ever bridge that gap.

So yeah, I'm done as well.

Hopefully SE will play it smart and sidestep this entire issue in ARR.