I think its important to note, you should not rely on gear builds to hold hate, it is entirely possable to keep hate well without gear built to that condition reguardless of how hard your dd hits, that being said, enmity+ is certainly the best stat for the belt slot, i would argue against adding it anywhere else if it calls for the sacrafice of defensive or regenerative stats. But my stance on that is strongly disputed. to each their own i suppose